Thursday, 17 November 2011

Influencing forces

I start this topic after reading my stars by Jonathon cainer an astrology that I swear by for accuracy. I am a Leo with Scorpio rising and a moon in Aries. But I am not the interesting one today.

My partners frustration, anger and self doubt is reflecting the true statement of her stars. With this knowing of other forces and factors encouraging such reactions and behaviors I feel relieved at being able to see another angle to the dramas that seem to play out before me.

This knowing or additional information gives me the piece of mind to be aware of the multitudes of views and influences that are effecting the entire picture. Without this open perspective I could be very worried about certain feelings being released.

This bigger picture view of the possible misinterpretations that could be taking place due to a multitude of influencing forces enables me a level of acceptance that I enjoy in the mean time to diffuse.

Not that I believe this is everyones most natural ability but I do believe that it is a highly developed empathic skill. In any case I learnt a new saying the other day from a colleague : there are always three sides to a story - mine, yours and the truth somewhere in between.

The acceptance of this in itself removes the win perspective from the equation and thus enables the acceptance of influencing forces distorting the truth in the middle.

Now I will say my partners reality is upset and sad, yet mine is accepting . This is a skill that once learned is a valuable tool for piece of mind.
I need to learn how to share this awareness as a helpful too for everyone.

Live, love, laugh, learn and leave a legacy.

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